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Signs My Ex Misses Me

Coach Lee shares signs that your ex misses you and is open to getting back together with you.

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In this video you'll learn how to recognize the signs of your ex missing you and doubting their decision to break up with you. This is an important video if you are wanting to know if your ex is finding themselves wishing you two were still spending time together. If you are wanting your ex back, it can be helpful to recognize the signs of an ex missing you.

Videos mentioned in this one:

Watch the video of this podcast at Signs your ex misses you 

Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: Stages of no contact rule

What Is Limerence? What is Limerence?

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Should I Play Hard To Get?

Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I play hard to get?" You might ask if you should play hard to get to get your ex back or if you should play hard to get to attract the love and relationship you want such as a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.

Coach Lee discusses the subject of playing hard to get and if it is effective in attracting someone and causing them to want to be in a relationship with you (or with you again).

Should women play hard to get? Should men play hard to get? Coach Lee answers that question and explains what you can do to be more attractive and to build a great relationship with a wonderful person.

Watch the video version on YouTube at Should I play hard to get?

Read the accompanying article at: Should I play hard to get to get a boyfriend or girlfriend?

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The Art of Re-Attraction: Strategies to Make Someone Want You Again

Introduction:

Hello, I'm Coach Lee. Today, I'll delve into the intriguing world of re-attraction, particularly focusing on whether playing hard to get is an effective strategy to win back an ex or ignite the spark in a new relationship. Over my two decades as a relationship coach, I've observed the outcomes of various approaches and can guide you through the effective strategies to reignite someone's desire for you.

Misconceptions of Playing Hard to Get:

Playing hard to get has long been touted as a surefire way to increase desirability. It suggests that by making yourself less available or somewhat elusive, you can amplify someone's interest in you. However, this technique is often misunderstood and misapplied, leading to frustration and missed connections. The truth is, attraction is far more nuanced, and playing games can sometimes do more harm than good.

The Psychology of Desire and Scarcity:

At its core, playing hard to get taps into the psychological principle of scarcity, which increases value. When something is rare or hard to obtain, we tend to perceive it as more valuable. This is true in romance as well; when someone appears slightly out of reach, it can pique interest and desire. However, this doesn't mean that you should become distant or unresponsive, as genuine connection forms the bedrock of any meaningful relationship.

The No Contact Rule Explained:

Often people equate the no-contact rule with playing hard to get, but they're not the same. No contact is a period of silence after a breakup, giving both parties time to reflect, heal, and miss one another. It's a mature response to a breakup, signifying respect for oneself and the other person's decision. Rather than a game, it's a strategic and respectful way to potentially open the door for reconnection in the future.

Building Your Own Life: The Key to Attraction:

One of the most attractive qualities you can cultivate is a fulfilling life of your own. This involves pursuing your interests, goals, and personal growth. When you're genuinely engaged and happy with your life, you naturally radiate confidence and positivity, which are highly attractive traits. Rather than focusing on making someone chase you, invest in making yourself someone worth being with.

Re-engaging with Confidence and Ease:

If the time comes to re-engage with the person you're interested in, do so with confidence and a casual demeanor. Share the positive changes in your life and your new experiences, but without desperation or expectation. Demonstrate that while you value their presence in your life, your happiness and self-worth aren't dependent on them. This balance of interest and independence can significantly boost your attractiveness.

The Balance Between Interest and Independence:

While showing interest is important, it's equally crucial to maintain your independence and self-respect. Don't be afraid to show that you care, but also make it clear that you are your own person with a rich, fulfilling life. This not only increases your desirability but also sets the stage for a healthier, more balanced relationship dynamic.

Avoiding the Pitfalls of Game-Playing:

It's essential to avoid the pitfalls of insincere game-playing. Authenticity is key in any interaction or relationship. People can sense when you're being genuine versus when you're playing a role. If your actions are perceived as manipulative or inauthentic, it will likely drive the other person away. Instead, focus on genuine self-improvement and sincere interactions.

Handling Reconnection with Maturity:

As you navigate the potential reconnection, handle every interaction with maturity and respect. If they show interest again, engage with them positively but continue to prioritize your well-being. Your goal is to establish a new connection based on mutual respect and genuine affection, not on the shaky grounds of games or manipulation.

Embracing Personal Growth:

Personal growth should be at the forefront of your journey, whether you're trying to rekindle an old flame or spark a new one. Engage in activities that enhance your life and make you a more interesting, well-rounded individual. As you evolve and grow, so does your inherent attractiveness.

Conclusion:

Making someone want you again isn't about playing games or creating an illusion of scarcity. It's about becoming a genuinely attractive, confident, and independent individual. By focusing on your own life, engaging with others positively and authentically, and respecting both yourself and the other person, you create a compelling presence that naturally draws people to you. Remember, the most attractive quality is not how hard you are to get, but how worthy you are of love, respect, and affection. As you navigate these strategies, keep your focus on building a life that's attractive in its own right, and let the chips fall where they may in your romantic endeavors. Stay tuned for more insights on relationships and personal development to guide you on your journey.

How To Make Someone Want You Again

Though we can't truly "make" someone want us again, Coach Lee explains how you can re-attract someone to the point that they want you again and want to reunite with you. This is extremely helpful after a breakup if you want to get back together with your ex. 

Watch the video of this podcast at How to make someone want you again

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The Art of Reigniting Desire: How to Make Someone Want You Again

Introduction

Rekindling someone's interest and desire after a drift or breakup can be challenging. Often, the instinct is to pursue them more aggressively. However, turning the tables by stepping back, stopping the pursuit, and even implementing the no-contact rule, combined with a casual demeanor when they reach out, can be more effective. This article explores how you can make someone want you again by giving them space and subtly re-engaging their interest.

Understanding the Psychology of Desire

Desire often grows in space and mystery rather than in the predictable pattern of continued pursuit. When you stop chasing someone, you disrupt the expected dynamic. This shift can lead to curiosity and a re-evaluation of their feelings. The no-contact rule isn't just about making them miss you; it's about giving them the room to question the absence of what was once familiar and possibly taken for granted.

Implementing the No-Contact Rule

The no-contact rule is essentially a period where you cease all communication with the person of interest. This means no calls, texts, or social media interactions. The purpose is twofold: it allows you to regain composure and focus on your own growth, and it also leaves a void in their life where you used to be. This absence can often lead to them missing you and reconsidering their feelings. It's crucial, however, that this step is executed with sincerity and not as a manipulative ploy. Genuine self-improvement and reflection are key during this period.

Self-Improvement and Personal Growth

During the no-contact period, invest in yourself. Engage in activities that improve your well-being and happiness. This might mean picking up new hobbies, focusing on career goals, or simply spending time with loved ones. As you become more fulfilled and confident in your own life, your intrinsic attractiveness increases. People are naturally drawn to individuals who are content and passionate about their lives. This shift in your demeanor will be noticeable and appealing when you eventually reconnect.

Re-engaging with a Casual Demeanor

Once the no-contact period ends, and they reach out or you decide to re-initiate contact, maintain a casual and composed demeanor. The desperation or intense eagerness that might have characterized your interactions before needs to be replaced with a relaxed, confident attitude. Show that while you value them and enjoy their company, your happiness doesn't solely depend on their attention or approval. This balance of warmth and independence can be incredibly attractive.

Demonstrating Change and New Dynamics

When you do start interacting again, subtly demonstrate the positive changes in your life. Talk about new experiences or insights gained during the no-contact period without bragging or seeming like you're trying to make them jealous. The goal is to show that you've evolved, that your life is rich and interesting, and that being part of it is a choice, not a necessity. This can reignite their interest and make them want to be a part of your world again.

Handling Re-engagement with Maturity

As they start to show interest again, continue to keep a balanced approach. Don't revert to old patterns of immediate and overwhelming responses. Instead, continue to prioritize your life and respond to them with a steady, engaging manner. This shows that while you're interested, you're not waiting on them, creating a dynamic where they may start pursuing you more actively.

Conclusion

Making someone want you again is not about games or manipulation. It's about understanding human psychology and creating an environment where desire can naturally rekindle. By stepping back with the no-contact rule, focusing on personal growth, and re-engaging with a casual and confident demeanor, you turn the tables and create a situation where they start to see you in a new light. This approach isn't just about reigniting their desire; it's about creating a healthier, more balanced dynamic where both parties can interact with mutual respect and attraction.

Teach Your Ex This After A Breakup

Coach Lee tells you what your response to a breakup teaches your ex. Your response can teach your ex important things that can bring them back to you or push them away.

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Videos mentioned in this one:

Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

Your Ex’s Journey Back To You: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iooao52p_X8

Clues That Your Ex Wants You Back: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fKEvp6Rz0HQ

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Will My Ex Come Back To Me? How To Know.

In this video Coach Lee answers the question, "Will my ex come back to me?" If you have been broken up with and are wondering how to know if my ex will come back to me and what the chances are of your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend coming back to you wanting to get back together, this video will give you some indications of the likelihood of their return. Find out how to know if your ex will come back to you by listening to this powerful message by Coach Lee.

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Videos mentioned in this one:

Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

Your Ex’s Journey Back To You: https://youtube.com/watch?v=iooao52p_X8

Clues That Your Ex Wants You Back: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fKEvp6Rz0HQ

Read the accompanying article to this video at https://myexbackcoach.com/will-my-ex-come-back-to-me/

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Interview With A Dumper Who Came Back

Note Before You LISTEN! The answers provided are REAL but they are READ. These are NOT live interviews. It was better for these two dumpers to write out their answers and then read them so that they were deliberate about what they shared and felt good about their answers after giving it some thought.

In the future, I'll try to do some where they don't know the questions ahead of time but there's a lot to consider when you are delving into people's personal lives and they were generous to do what they did.

In this podcast, Coach Lee interviews two people who dumped their ex but found their way back after the people who were dumped followed the Emergency Breakup Kit which you can get at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/ and the Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-marriage-kit/

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Why The No Contact Rule Works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2v_9UTypfCs&t=14s

The Mind of Your Ex During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TCKTPQCuEg&t=767s

What Your Ex Is Feeling During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eM-gi4ESjZs

Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

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Exes Say The Darndest Things, But What Do They Mean?

What does it mean when an ex says that I deserve better? Or when an ex says, "I need to work on myself"?

Coach Lee discusses what you can really interpret from what an ex says when they break up with you and how it can impact your strategy going forward if you want to get back together or reunite with him or her.

See the accompanying article at: What does an ex's excuses at a breakup mean

On Medium: What does it mean when an ex says or gives excuses to breakup

Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/

Navigating Post-Breakup Conversations: Guidance from Coach Lee

Entering the complex emotional landscape post-breakup, individuals often find themselves trying to decipher their ex's parting words. As Coach Lee, I aim to provide clarity and direction in understanding these statements, discerning their real implications, and shaping your approach to possibly mending or moving on from the relationship.

Deciphering Parting Words

At the end of a relationship, your ex may utter phrases that seem deep or unarguable, like "You deserve someone better" or "I need time to find myself." Recognize these for what they often are—strategies to mitigate discomfort and facilitate a smoother separation. These words, while seemingly profound, are typically more about your ex's current emotional state and less about a definitive statement on the relationship's future potential.

The Emotional State at Breakup

It's crucial to remember that sentiments expressed during a breakup are reflections of a momentary emotional landscape, not permanent fixtures. The tumultuous nature of breakups means that feelings, regrets, and desires are all in flux. As such, the declarations made in these moments are subject to change as time progresses and emotions settle.

Responding to Claims of "Deservedness" and Self-Improvement

When an ex suggests that you "deserve someone better" or that they must focus on their own growth, it might come across as insincere or even condescending. Rather than getting entangled in these assertions, it's often more beneficial to turn your attention inward, focusing on personal development and emotional healing.

Attraction's Influence in Relationship Dynamics

Understand that a diminished sense of attraction often lies beneath the decision to end a relationship. While the reasons given during the breakup might vary, a fundamental loss of attraction is a common undercurrent. However, this doesn't mean all hope is lost. Attraction is dynamic and can be rebuilt with time, effort, and genuine personal growth.

Strategies for the Post-Breakup Period: No Contact and Self-Focus

Implementing a no-contact period can be an effective strategy following a breakup. It provides essential space for both parties to reflect and heal. Simultaneously, engaging in self-improvement and pursuing interests that enhance your personal life can increase your happiness and potentially rekindle attraction from your ex.

Embracing Authenticity and Necessary Changes

If specific behaviors or issues contributed to the breakup, genuinely acknowledging and addressing these areas is crucial. Should the relationship get a second chance, demonstrating real understanding and change can profoundly affect its dynamics. Ensure these changes are authentic and aligned with your personal growth, not just temporary adjustments aimed at reconciliation.

Embracing the Uncertainty with a Forward-Looking Attitude

While a breakup might feel like a definitive conclusion, emotions and circumstances can evolve over time. The statements made by your ex during this time often reflect temporary feelings rather than fixed predictions. By prioritizing your growth and well-being, you position yourself for a healthier future, whether that involves reuniting with your ex or embarking on new beginnings.

In closing, as Coach Lee, I encourage you to stay informed and resilient. Subscribe and follow for continued insights into navigating relationship dynamics, understanding breakup psychology, and fostering personal development. With the right perspective and actions, this challenging time can lead to significant growth and new opportunities.

Videos

Mentioned In This One: Stages Ex Goes Through - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

My Ex Said There's No Chance Of Us Getting Back Together - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

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Do Love Spells Work To Get An Ex Back?

Coach Lee shares experiences of people who tried love spells and so-called spell casters to get their ex back after a breakup.

This is a must-hear podcast if you have just been broken up with and are feeling desperate or hopeless. If you are considering paying someone do put a love spell on your ex, listen to the experiences of clients before working with Coach Lee.

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Steps To Get My Ex Back

Coach Lee shares 3 steps to get your ex back after they broke up with you. Because having a plan you can refer back to on difficult days is important, Lee breaks down each step in detail but to where it makes sense.

This is a must-hear podcast if you have just been broken up with or are feeling overwhelmed by all the advice floating around about how to get your ex back after a breakup.

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Videos Mentioned In This One:

The No Contact Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQR5Wefd-Uc

What Is My Ex Thinking During No Contact? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TCKTPQCuEg&t=767s

Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

Strategic (Intelligent) Contact VS No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcA47MmHP_I

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Why Won’t My Ex Talk To Me?

Wondering why your ex won't talk to you after breaking up with you? Or why your ex isn't returning calls, texts, or to you at all?

Coach Lee explains why your ex is not talking to you and what you can do about it. This is especially true if you want to know why your ex is ignoring you and not answering your questions about the future of your relationship along with how they feel.

Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/

What Is My Ex Thinking During No Contact? 

Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact

Why Is My Ex So Cruel?

See the accompanying article to this video at: Why Won't My Ex Talk To Me?  

On Medium: Why Isn't My Ex Talking To Me?

Unraveling the Silence: Exploring Why Your Ex May Not Be Communicating

In addressing the puzzling question of why an ex-partner might choose not to communicate post-breakup, it's essential to delve into the complex emotions and dynamics at play. This exploration is particularly relevant for those feeling bewildered or blindsided by a sudden end to a relationship that, until recently, seemed filled with love and connection.

Navigating the Post-Breakup Confusion

The aftermath of a breakup often leaves one reeling with shock and confusion. There's an inherent desire to reach out, to have a conversation that could magically mend the fractures. However, in my two decades of experience in relationship recovery, I've observed that such attempts to initiate dialogue are unlikely to yield the desired reconciliation and might, in fact, drive your ex further away.

Why Your Ex Might Be Avoiding Contact

1. Avoidance of Discomfort: Often, an ex might choose not to communicate simply to evade the uncomfortable and confrontational aspects of a breakup. They might prefer to distance themselves from the emotional turmoil, adopting an avoidance strategy that allows them to move forward without facing the pain they've caused.

2. Battling with Guilt: If your ex is struggling with feelings of guilt over the breakup, they might find it challenging to face you. Unlike those who choose avoidance, these individuals are actively troubled by the hurt they've inflicted, yet they might still be reluctant to resume communication, believing that staying apart is the better path.

3. Fear of Emotional Vulnerability: In some cases, an ex's silence could stem from their fear of succumbing to emotional vulnerability. They might still have strong feelings for you but are apprehensive about engaging in communication that could lead them back into a relationship they're unsure about.

4. Resentment or Anger: If the breakup was the result of something hurtful you did, such as infidelity or damaging remarks, your ex's refusal to talk could be driven by anger. In these instances, it's crucial to respect their need for space.

5. Presence of a New Relationship: The involvement of a new person in your ex's life can significantly influence their willingness to communicate. While this might be painful, it doesn't necessarily eliminate the possibility of reconciliation in the future.

The Strategy of No Contact

In light of these reasons, the 'No Contact' rule becomes a vital strategy. It's about more than just refraining from initiating communication; it's about allowing your ex to fully experience the breakup and its consequences. This period of silence can also be a time for personal growth and self-improvement on your part.

Conclusion

Understanding your ex's reluctance to communicate requires a nuanced examination of the emotional landscape following a breakup. By respecting their need for space and focusing on your personal development, you create a potential environment for reconciliation, should it be a mutually desired outcome. Healing and reconnection are processes that demand patience, understanding, and often, a strategic approach like 'No Contact'.