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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Friday Jun 04, 2021
How To Fix A Broken Marriage
Friday Jun 04, 2021
Friday Jun 04, 2021
How to fix my broken marriage is a question often asked and powerful direction is provided in this video by Coach Lee, a world-renown relationship expert.
Fixing a marriage that is failing or falling apart isn't like a car where you simply get a replacement for a broken part and repair it. A relationship is far more complex and cannot thrive or heal under a set- it-and-forget-it mindset or attitude. Watch the video version of this podcast at How to fix your marriage
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Navigating Marital Challenges: Insights and Strategies for a Stronger Bond
In the quest to nurture a fulfilling marriage, many find themselves entangled in the misconception that a relationship is an independent mechanism, much like a machine that requires occasional tweaking. This perspective, often propagated by modern relationship advice, overlooks the essence of marriage - the deep connection between two individuals. In this comprehensive guide, we'll explore effective strategies to strengthen your marriage, focusing on the crucial role of personal connection and mutual respect.
Understanding Marriage Beyond a 'Fix-It' Mentality
Marriage, contrary to the 'fix-it' approach, is not a set-and-forget mechanism. It's a dynamic interplay between two people, each with their own needs, desires, and aspirations. The fallacy of treating marriage as a separate entity from the individuals involved often leads to a disconnect, where the focus shifts from nurturing the personal bond to addressing the 'marriage' as an abstract concept.
The Art of Give and Take
A harmonious marriage thrives on a balanced give-and-take dynamic. Problems arise when this balance is disrupted, leading to one partner feeling undervalued or overburdened. This imbalance is not sustainable and often marks the beginning of deeper issues. It's crucial to recognize and address these disparities to prevent long-term damage to the relationship.
The Impact of External Factors: Lessons from the Pandemic
The global lockdowns of 2020 and 2021 brought unique challenges and insights into marital dynamics. Contrary to initial fears, many couples found their bonds strengthened during this period. The forced proximity and shared challenges led to a deeper appreciation of each other's presence, underscoring the importance of companionship and mutual support in stressful times.
Rekindling Desire and Addressing Unmet Needs
Central to a fulfilling marriage is the need for both partners to feel liked, loved, and desired. Neglect in these areas can lead to a gradual erosion of the bond, often reaching a point where repair seems daunting. It's imperative to consistently nurture these aspects of the relationship, ensuring that both partners feel valued and desired.
The Role of Self-Improvement
An often-overlooked aspect of maintaining a healthy relationship is self-improvement. By striving to be the best version of oneself – mentally, emotionally, and physically – you not only enhance your own life but also contribute positively to the marital dynamic. This mutual growth fosters a deeper level of intimacy and satisfaction.
Respecting Your Partner's Wishes
In times of conflict, the instinct to cling tighter can be overwhelming. However, true respect for your partner might mean honoring their need for space or even separation. This difficult step can sometimes lead to a greater understanding of the relationship's value, potentially leading to a stronger, more sincere reunion.
Long-Term Strategies for Reconciliation
When facing the brink of separation, immediate fixes are rarely effective. Instead, a long-term strategy that focuses on understanding and meeting each other's needs, respecting boundaries, and gradual reconnection can be more fruitful. It's a journey of self-awareness and patience, recognizing that healing and rebuilding take time.
Embracing Change and Accepting Outcomes
In some cases, despite all efforts, a relationship may not survive. This painful realization requires a level of acceptance and the understanding that you cannot control another's feelings or decisions. In such instances, focusing on personal growth and healing becomes paramount.
Conclusion
Fixing a marriage is not about quick fixes or treating the relationship as a separate entity. It's about a deep, personal connection with your partner, understanding their needs, and continually nurturing the bond. Whether it's through mutual respect, self-improvement, or accepting difficult truths, the journey to a stronger marriage is a continual process of learning, understanding, and growing together.
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