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The Importance of Your Ex Being Ready To Come Back

As relationship expert, Coach Lee, explains in this video, it is very important that your ex be ready before you reach out to them.

If you are asking when your ex will be ready, Coach Lee explains the processes and stages that your ex must go through before they are receptive to communicating with you and to considering getting back together.

That is why it is so important that you do not reach out before your ex is ready or else you could sabotage your efforts to get back together with them. As Coach Lee explains, there is a reason that your ex won't listen to logic and reason when they are in the process of breaking up with you.

There is a reason that they are so cold sometimes and decisive. Usually your ex has been planning for and deciding to break up with you for a while. Sometimes it's weeks, months, or even years. So they have already thought it through and know what they think they want at the moment.

As Coach Lee points out, you can't talk them out of it when they are in the process of breaking up with you or shortly after. You actually can't "talk" them out of it regardless but they are far less receptive to changing their minds shortly after the breakup. That is why it is so important for them to be ready and receptive. Coach Lee points out how you can know and more on why this is so important.

See the accompanying post to this podcast: Signs My Ex Is Ready To Reunite

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Is There Hope To Get Your Ex Back?

Is there hope to get your ex back? Can you get your ex back? That is what relationship expert, Coach Lee, discusses in this important message.

In this encouraging podcast Lee discusses why, despite your feelings of hopelessness, there is hope of getting your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back after a breakup. It's important to remember that getting an ex back doesn't usually happen over night, usually because it took time for your ex to come to the conclusion that they wanted to break up with you, it takes time for your ex to actually trust themselves that they want you back and aren't just going to want to break up again. In this way, they often are considering your feelings in the matter and don't want to hurt you again.

That's why it is important that you don't make the breakup awkward, difficult, or dramatic. If you respect your ex's decision and let them go, they will be able to reach out to you if they miss you even a small amount because they don't worry that you will make things difficult if they decide they want to breakup again. In this way, you remove a hurdle to your ex getting back with you. This gives you even more reason to have hope that your ex will come back to you.

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When Does No Contact Start Working?

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When does no contact start working? When will no contact start to work on your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend? If those are your questions, Coach Lee speaks in detail about this topic in this powerful podcast.

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In other content, relationship expert Coach Lee speaks about stages that your ex will go through after a breakup when you have implemented the no contact rule. In this video he talks about when the no contact rule starts working and has the most influence on your ex.

As Lee has discussed in other podcasts and videos and on his website, the no contact rule is an effective way of getting your ex to miss you and, very often, to want to get back together with you. It is important that you stay strong and believe in the process even though it is difficult.

No contact will bring results with your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend when they lose the ability to expect you to reach out and when they begin experiencing feelings of loss. At the breakup, the person who was broken up with feels the most loss while the person who did the dumping doesn't feel as much, if any.

When you use the no contact rule, you turn the tables on your ex so that they feel you slipping away from them. Ideally, no contact will have them fearing that they could lose you forever to someone else or because you get over them.

If you stay in contact with them, they will see you as always being there, waiting around on them, and a permanent option if they ever want you back. The No Contact Rule changes that to where your ex sees that you have the strength to stay away from them and to move on with your life.

This is how you can introduce the fear of loss into the breakup for your ex. Doing so significantly increases the odds of your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend coming back to you.

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Getting Mixed Signals From Your Ex?

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If you were dumped but are now getting mixed signals from your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend and want to know what they mean and what to do about it, this video by Coach Lee is for you. Be sure to listen all the way to the end! It's very important that you listen all the way to the end to get a full understanding of why your ex is giving you mixed signals and what you should do about it to fully get them back.

If your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend is giving you mixed signals, you probably feel that you are in limbo land. You aren't back with your ex all the way yet, but they seem to be interested in getting back together one day and not the next. They text or call you a few days in a row and then you don't hear from them. They tell you they miss you or maybe even say that they love you but then they disappear and tell you that they are confused or want to take a step back.

Coach Lee explains what you should do and how you should respond to these mixed signals if you want your ex back and want to end the mixed signals. An accompanying article to this video may be found at: Mixed signals from ex

VIDEOS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO "Get Your Ex Back From A Rebound Relationship": Video at Get Your Ex Back From A Rebound Relationship

Is Your Ex A Narcissist? Is My Ex A Narcissist?

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Psychology of the No Contact Rule On The One Who Broke Up With You

Coach Lee explains the psychology of the no contact rule on a dumper (your ex) after a breakup. You'll learn how the no contact rule affects your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend after he/she broke up with you (or dumped you if you prefer).

This is an important video if you are wanting to know how the no contact rule psychologically affects your ex and if it can help the two of you reunite.

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Videos mentioned in this one: Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

See the Accompanying article at: Psychology of the No Contact Rule On the Dumper

What Is Your Ex Feeling During No Contact? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eM-gi4ESjZs&t=15s

Help For Anxiety After Breakup: Help for Breakup Anxiety

The Law of Attraction To Get Your Ex Back: Law of Attraction to Get Your Ex Back

Teach Your Ex This After Breakup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xzz-9cONCeU

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See the accompanying post to this video at https://myexbackcoach.com/psychology-of-the-no-contact-rule/ 

Is It Too Late To Use The No Contact Rule To Get An Ex Back?

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If you have begged, pleaded with, and chased your ex after they broke up with you and you are wondering if it is too late to do no contact, Coach Lee explains if and when it is too late to use the no contact rule to re-attract your ex.

As Coach Lee explains, it is never too late to do the right thing. People often ask, "Will no contact work after begging?"

According to Coach Lee, though begging taxes your chances of getting your ex back, you still have a good chance of winning them back if you stop the begging, pestering and pressuring them and implement no contact. When you stop the bad actions and start the good habit of giving him or her the space, you are interrupting the pattern (pattern interruption) and this is often successful to get your ex into the relief stage and moving toward the all-important curiosity stage. The fear-of-loss stage would be next if you stay in no contact. So if you have begged, pleaded, and otherwise messed up, you can still successfully apply the no contact rule and it can still work. Get

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Signs My Ex Misses Me

Coach Lee shares signs that your ex misses you and is open to getting back together with you.

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In this video you'll learn how to recognize the signs of your ex missing you and doubting their decision to break up with you. This is an important video if you are wanting to know if your ex is finding themselves wishing you two were still spending time together. If you are wanting your ex back, it can be helpful to recognize the signs of an ex missing you.

Videos mentioned in this one:

Watch the video of this podcast at Signs your ex misses you 

Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: Stages of no contact rule

What Is Limerence? What is Limerence?

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Should I Play Hard To Get?

Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I play hard to get?" You might ask if you should play hard to get to get your ex back or if you should play hard to get to attract the love and relationship you want such as a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.

Coach Lee discusses the subject of playing hard to get and if it is effective in attracting someone and causing them to want to be in a relationship with you (or with you again).

Should women play hard to get? Should men play hard to get? Coach Lee answers that question and explains what you can do to be more attractive and to build a great relationship with a wonderful person.

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The Art of Re-Attraction: Strategies to Make Someone Want You Again

Introduction:

Hello, I'm Coach Lee. Today, I'll delve into the intriguing world of re-attraction, particularly focusing on whether playing hard to get is an effective strategy to win back an ex or ignite the spark in a new relationship. Over my two decades as a relationship coach, I've observed the outcomes of various approaches and can guide you through the effective strategies to reignite someone's desire for you.

Misconceptions of Playing Hard to Get:

Playing hard to get has long been touted as a surefire way to increase desirability. It suggests that by making yourself less available or somewhat elusive, you can amplify someone's interest in you. However, this technique is often misunderstood and misapplied, leading to frustration and missed connections. The truth is, attraction is far more nuanced, and playing games can sometimes do more harm than good.

The Psychology of Desire and Scarcity:

At its core, playing hard to get taps into the psychological principle of scarcity, which increases value. When something is rare or hard to obtain, we tend to perceive it as more valuable. This is true in romance as well; when someone appears slightly out of reach, it can pique interest and desire. However, this doesn't mean that you should become distant or unresponsive, as genuine connection forms the bedrock of any meaningful relationship.

The No Contact Rule Explained:

Often people equate the no-contact rule with playing hard to get, but they're not the same. No contact is a period of silence after a breakup, giving both parties time to reflect, heal, and miss one another. It's a mature response to a breakup, signifying respect for oneself and the other person's decision. Rather than a game, it's a strategic and respectful way to potentially open the door for reconnection in the future.

Building Your Own Life: The Key to Attraction:

One of the most attractive qualities you can cultivate is a fulfilling life of your own. This involves pursuing your interests, goals, and personal growth. When you're genuinely engaged and happy with your life, you naturally radiate confidence and positivity, which are highly attractive traits. Rather than focusing on making someone chase you, invest in making yourself someone worth being with.

Re-engaging with Confidence and Ease:

If the time comes to re-engage with the person you're interested in, do so with confidence and a casual demeanor. Share the positive changes in your life and your new experiences, but without desperation or expectation. Demonstrate that while you value their presence in your life, your happiness and self-worth aren't dependent on them. This balance of interest and independence can significantly boost your attractiveness.

The Balance Between Interest and Independence:

While showing interest is important, it's equally crucial to maintain your independence and self-respect. Don't be afraid to show that you care, but also make it clear that you are your own person with a rich, fulfilling life. This not only increases your desirability but also sets the stage for a healthier, more balanced relationship dynamic.

Avoiding the Pitfalls of Game-Playing:

It's essential to avoid the pitfalls of insincere game-playing. Authenticity is key in any interaction or relationship. People can sense when you're being genuine versus when you're playing a role. If your actions are perceived as manipulative or inauthentic, it will likely drive the other person away. Instead, focus on genuine self-improvement and sincere interactions.

Handling Reconnection with Maturity:

As you navigate the potential reconnection, handle every interaction with maturity and respect. If they show interest again, engage with them positively but continue to prioritize your well-being. Your goal is to establish a new connection based on mutual respect and genuine affection, not on the shaky grounds of games or manipulation.

Embracing Personal Growth:

Personal growth should be at the forefront of your journey, whether you're trying to rekindle an old flame or spark a new one. Engage in activities that enhance your life and make you a more interesting, well-rounded individual. As you evolve and grow, so does your inherent attractiveness.

Conclusion:

Making someone want you again isn't about playing games or creating an illusion of scarcity. It's about becoming a genuinely attractive, confident, and independent individual. By focusing on your own life, engaging with others positively and authentically, and respecting both yourself and the other person, you create a compelling presence that naturally draws people to you. Remember, the most attractive quality is not how hard you are to get, but how worthy you are of love, respect, and affection. As you navigate these strategies, keep your focus on building a life that's attractive in its own right, and let the chips fall where they may in your romantic endeavors. Stay tuned for more insights on relationships and personal development to guide you on your journey.

How To Make Someone Want You Again

Though we can't truly "make" someone want us again, Coach Lee explains how you can re-attract someone to the point that they want you again and want to reunite with you. This is extremely helpful after a breakup if you want to get back together with your ex. 

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The Art of Reigniting Desire: How to Make Someone Want You Again

Introduction

Rekindling someone's interest and desire after a drift or breakup can be challenging. Often, the instinct is to pursue them more aggressively. However, turning the tables by stepping back, stopping the pursuit, and even implementing the no-contact rule, combined with a casual demeanor when they reach out, can be more effective. This article explores how you can make someone want you again by giving them space and subtly re-engaging their interest.

Understanding the Psychology of Desire

Desire often grows in space and mystery rather than in the predictable pattern of continued pursuit. When you stop chasing someone, you disrupt the expected dynamic. This shift can lead to curiosity and a re-evaluation of their feelings. The no-contact rule isn't just about making them miss you; it's about giving them the room to question the absence of what was once familiar and possibly taken for granted.

Implementing the No-Contact Rule

The no-contact rule is essentially a period where you cease all communication with the person of interest. This means no calls, texts, or social media interactions. The purpose is twofold: it allows you to regain composure and focus on your own growth, and it also leaves a void in their life where you used to be. This absence can often lead to them missing you and reconsidering their feelings. It's crucial, however, that this step is executed with sincerity and not as a manipulative ploy. Genuine self-improvement and reflection are key during this period.

Self-Improvement and Personal Growth

During the no-contact period, invest in yourself. Engage in activities that improve your well-being and happiness. This might mean picking up new hobbies, focusing on career goals, or simply spending time with loved ones. As you become more fulfilled and confident in your own life, your intrinsic attractiveness increases. People are naturally drawn to individuals who are content and passionate about their lives. This shift in your demeanor will be noticeable and appealing when you eventually reconnect.

Re-engaging with a Casual Demeanor

Once the no-contact period ends, and they reach out or you decide to re-initiate contact, maintain a casual and composed demeanor. The desperation or intense eagerness that might have characterized your interactions before needs to be replaced with a relaxed, confident attitude. Show that while you value them and enjoy their company, your happiness doesn't solely depend on their attention or approval. This balance of warmth and independence can be incredibly attractive.

Demonstrating Change and New Dynamics

When you do start interacting again, subtly demonstrate the positive changes in your life. Talk about new experiences or insights gained during the no-contact period without bragging or seeming like you're trying to make them jealous. The goal is to show that you've evolved, that your life is rich and interesting, and that being part of it is a choice, not a necessity. This can reignite their interest and make them want to be a part of your world again.

Handling Re-engagement with Maturity

As they start to show interest again, continue to keep a balanced approach. Don't revert to old patterns of immediate and overwhelming responses. Instead, continue to prioritize your life and respond to them with a steady, engaging manner. This shows that while you're interested, you're not waiting on them, creating a dynamic where they may start pursuing you more actively.

Conclusion

Making someone want you again is not about games or manipulation. It's about understanding human psychology and creating an environment where desire can naturally rekindle. By stepping back with the no-contact rule, focusing on personal growth, and re-engaging with a casual and confident demeanor, you turn the tables and create a situation where they start to see you in a new light. This approach isn't just about reigniting their desire; it's about creating a healthier, more balanced dynamic where both parties can interact with mutual respect and attraction.

Teach Your Ex This After A Breakup

Coach Lee tells you what your response to a breakup teaches your ex. Your response can teach your ex important things that can bring them back to you or push them away.

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Videos mentioned in this one:

Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

Your Ex’s Journey Back To You: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iooao52p_X8

Clues That Your Ex Wants You Back: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fKEvp6Rz0HQ

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