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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Sunday Jan 09, 2022
Should I Ignore My Ex?
Sunday Jan 09, 2022
Sunday Jan 09, 2022
In this video Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I ignore my ex?" Lee is operating under the assumption that you want your ex back and are wondering if you should ignore them when they reach out to you while you are following the No Contact Rule. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at: https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
In the realm of relationships and breakups, the advice to "play hard to get" often surfaces, especially when considering how to respond if an ex shows interest in rekindling a romance.
However, there's a nuanced difference between playing hard to get and outright ignoring someone, particularly an ex who may be seeking reconciliation. While it might seem counterintuitive, completely ignoring your ex could lead to unintended consequences, potentially closing the door on a relationship that both parties might genuinely want to revive.
The concept of the "no contact rule" often gets misinterpreted in this context. Popularly advised in breakup scenarios, this rule suggests a period of no communication immediately following a split.
The primary purpose is to allow emotional healing and personal growth, rather than to manipulate or punish your ex. It's about creating space for both individuals to evaluate their feelings and priorities independently. This period of silence is not meant to be a game of who can ignore the other longer; rather, it's a time for introspection and self-improvement.
A crucial aspect often overlooked is that the no contact rule is typically about not initiating contact, not about ignoring the other person completely. If you're still interested in getting back together and your ex reaches out, shutting them out entirely contradicts your goal.
Ignoring someone who is making an effort to communicate can send a message of disinterest or spite. It might lead your ex to believe you've moved on or that you're unwilling to even consider reconciliation. This misunderstanding could cause them to give up on the relationship entirely, thinking their efforts are unappreciated or unwelcome.
In practice, if your ex reaches out during the no contact period, and you are interested in re-establishing the relationship, it's important to approach the situation thoughtfully.
Acknowledging their effort to communicate shows maturity and respect, even if you decide to maintain some distance. It's about finding a balance between showing interest and maintaining the space you need for personal growth.
It's also important to remember that the no contact rule isn't a one-size-fits-all solution. Every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. The rule should serve as a guideline for taking time for yourself, not as a strict protocol to be followed without considering the specific dynamics of your relationship.
In the end, effective communication is key in any relationship, especially when navigating the complexities of a breakup and potential reconciliation. Playing games or adhering to rigid rules without considering the feelings and intentions of both parties can lead to misunderstandings and missed opportunities.
If getting back together is a mutual interest, then open, honest, and respectful communication should be the foundation upon which any renewed relationship is built. Ignoring your ex, especially when they're reaching out, might close the door on a future that both of you could value.
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On Medium at: Should I Ignore My Ex If I Want Them Back?
At Life Coach Hub at: Should I Ignore My Ex After A Breakup?
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