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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive.
Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos.
Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others.
Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has a Master Diploma in marriage and family counseling along with multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting.
Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com.
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Episodes

Nov 29, 2022
Nov 29, 2022
13 min
Learn letting go techniques to get over your ex boyfriend, ex girlfriend, or ex spouse in addition to other past trauma.
Learn how to let go of an ex, past relationship, or trauma through the power of letting go techniques that you can do to move forward in life with less pain, grief, and emotional injury. Learn from Coach Lee on how to let go of the past with these techniques and steps.
Subscribe to Coach Lee for more videos and content like this that cam help with relationship dynamics. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and the Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk.
Accompanying article at "How To Let Go of Your Ex With Letting Go Techniques"
On Medium at "How to let go of your ex and heal."
On YouTube at "How to let go of your ex and feel better."

Oct 22, 2022
Oct 22, 2022
19 min
How to change your ex's mind about you after a breakup where you want to reunite but your ex does not. Coach Lee explains how atttraction works after a breakup, what you can do to change your ex's mind about you and shares what not to do if you want to successfully re-attract your ex.
The video version of this podcast is at: How to change your ex's mind about you after a breakup
The accompanying article to this podcast is at: How to change your ex's mind about you after they dumped you.
On Medium at: How to change your ex's mind about you
Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Video mentioned in this one:
The Pyschology of Re-Attraction can be watched at this link: The Psychology of Re-Attraction

Sep 24, 2022
Sep 24, 2022
17 min
Will the No Contact Rule still work if your ex has lost feelings for you?
Coach Lee explains what it means if your ex has lost feelings and how no contact can impact that (or if it does). He also discusses what must happen in order for your ex to have a return of their feelings for you so that they want to get back together with you. The video version of this podcast is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-S_Lk1pUO0.
Read the accompanying article at: Will no contact work if my ex has lost feelings for me?
On Medium at "Will no contact work if your ex lost feelings for you?"
The next video that Coach Lee reccomends after this one is, "This Happens When You Don't Contact Your Ex" and you can watch that video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xb_xxvuKG90
Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk

Sep 20, 2022
Sep 20, 2022
11 min
Coach Lee explains what happens when you do not contact your ex in terms of how it impacts them and can be helpful to allowing them to reconsider the breakup.
No contacting your ex can be one of the most powerful things you do to bring your ex back into your life after a breakup.
If you want your ex back and believe that the relationship can work out, listen to this video on what happens when you stop interacting and communicating with your ex.
Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk
Videos Mentioned In This One:
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: Stages of No Contact For Ex After Breakup
The Psychology of Re-Attraction: Psychology of Re-Attraction
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Read the accompanying article at "What happens when you don't contact your ex?"
On Mediusm at "What usually happens if I don't contact my ex?"

Aug 24, 2022
Aug 24, 2022
10 min
Coach Lee explains why the dumper often acts so cold, mean, and heartless after a breakup. It is important that you understand your ex if you want them back. If you don't want your ex back, then it doesn't matter and you can just move on, but if you do, understanding how they feel and why they do what they do can be extremely helpful. This is especially true if your ex is being cold and mean. Coach Lee discusses this and more in this powerful podcast.

Aug 19, 2022
Aug 19, 2022
11 min
Coach Lee explains how to get into your ex's heart. Beyond no contact and beyond anger is getting into your ex's heart to rebuild the connection and love. After re-attracting your ex, getting into their heart is the next and most powerful thing that you can do. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk. Subscribe to this channel to be notified when Coach Lee has a new video!
On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0L0C2jw6Jc

Aug 9, 2022
Aug 9, 2022
14 min
Coach Lee explains the psychology of re-attraction and your ex.
If you are wanting to re-attract your ex so that the two of you can work through your issues and reach intimacy once again, this video will help explain a process in plain terms. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk.
Videos mentioned in this one and suggested for follow up: Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact
Originally posted at Psychology of Re-Attraction
On Medium at "Psychology of Re-Attraction."
On YouTube at: Psychology of Re-Attraction After A Breakup

Jul 30, 2022
Jul 30, 2022
9 min
Coach Lee explains what your ex wants that they possibly weren't receiving which led to them initiating the breakup.
On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sr0P5J4TV9E
Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and the Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk
See reviews of the Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit-review/

Jul 19, 2022
Jul 19, 2022
12 min
Coach Lee explains why people are so stressed and how to relieve stress, anxiety, or stressful living. There are techniques and lifestyle changes that can relieve stress and anxiety while also lowering cortisol levels in individuals and these things are suprisingly simply to impliment. Lee goes over these things in this powerful video that can help you to cut out stress in your life and start living a live of optimism, joy, and peace. Be sure to subscribe to this channel at https://www.youtube.com/c/AnxietyPeace so that you will be notified when Lee has more videos like this. Also visit the Anxiety Peace website at https://myanxietypeace.com.

Jul 18, 2022
Jul 18, 2022
12 min
When does the breakup hit the dumper to the point that they actually feel loss and reconsider the situation to the point of giving the relationship another chance? Coach Lee answers this question and explains why the breakup impacts the dumper and the dumpee differently and at different times. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk.
Video mentioned in this one: Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact: Stages an ex goes through during no contact after breakup
Accompanying article at: When does the breakup hit the dumper?
On Medium at: When does the breakup hit the dumper?
"Understanding the Breakup Dynamics: When Does It Impact the Dumper?"
Navigating through the aftermath of a breakup can be a perplexing and emotionally taxing journey, especially when trying to understand the experience from the perspective of the dumper. Many find themselves asking, "When does the breakup actually affect the person who initiated it?" This question is crucial for those left bewildered by their partner's seemingly cold and detached demeanor post-breakup. This article aims to shed light on the dynamics at play from the moment of separation and how it impacts the dumper.
A key factor to recognize is the timing and preparation involved. In most cases, the decision to end the relationship does not occur overnight. It's likely that the dumper has contemplated this move over weeks, months, or even years. This period of contemplation includes weighing the pros and cons, imagining life post-breakup, and mentally preparing for the separation. By the time the breakup is communicated, the dumper has often emotionally processed much of the decision, making them appear cold or unaffected when, in reality, they've been dealing with these emotions privately.
When a breakup is initiated, the dumper is typically in a state of relief. This relief comes from finally expressing their decision and the anticipation of moving forward. It's not that they are insensitive to the pain or the implications of the breakup; it's more about them reaching a point where they feel this is the necessary step for their well-being. Consequently, the emotional disconnect you perceive is often a result of them having processed these feelings ahead of time.
Another misconception is the dumper's future romantic intentions. While they might insist they aren't interested in dating immediately, human nature tends toward companionship and connection. Thus, it's a natural progression for most people to seek out new relationships after a period of healing. The insistence on not wanting anyone else at the moment might be a means to lessen the immediate impact on the dumpee or a temporary state of mind until they are ready to move forward.
Understanding the concept of control versus loss is essential in navigating post-breakup dynamics. For the dumper, ending the relationship often comes from a place of control—they decide the timing and terms of the breakup. This control can make them seem more detached and less affected by the separation. For the dumpee, the breakup is a sudden loss, a jolt to the system that wasn't anticipated, leading to a more visible and immediate emotional turmoil.
Attraction, or the lack thereof, is often at the core of why the dumper decides to end the relationship. Various factors can erode attraction over time, including continuous conflict, a lack of emotional or physical connection, or feeling unappreciated. For the dumper, the attraction has dwindled to a point where the relationship's drawbacks outweigh the benefits, leading them to initiate the breakup.
It's important to understand that motivation to reconcile or work on the relationship comes from a sense of value and potential loss. The dumper, at the moment of breakup, doesn't perceive a significant loss in ending the relationship because their emotional detachment process has been ongoing. They see themselves as capable of moving on, possibly underestimating the value of what's being left behind.
For those hoping for reconciliation, recognizing the importance of space and reflection is vital. Attempting to force a continuation of the relationship or excessively contacting the dumper can further diminish your perceived value and their attraction towards you. Instead, giving them space can sometimes lead to a reassessment of the relationship's value and a potential rekindling of attraction.
In summary, the timing and impact of a breakup vary significantly between the dumper and the dumpee. Understanding these dynamics is key to navigating your emotions and decisions post-breakup. Remember, while it might seem that the dumper is unaffected, they've likely gone through an extensive internal process leading up to the decision. Recognizing this can provide some solace and perspective as you move forward, whether that's towards reconciliation or personal healing.
