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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Sunday Jun 11, 2023
How To Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right.
This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup. Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship.
Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth. Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone.
Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex. While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings.
Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away. Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others. Subscribe to Coach Lee! On YouTube at "How To Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup."
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Thursday May 25, 2023
Does Your Ex Have ”Reunion Resistance?”
Thursday May 25, 2023
Thursday May 25, 2023
In this enlightening and insightful video, Coach Lee delves into the complex reasons why your ex might be reluctant to rekindle the flame of your past relationship. With careful consideration and empathy, he explores five common factors that could be influencing their decision. By gaining a deeper understanding of their perspective, you'll be better equipped to navigate the path towards healing and personal growth.
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1. Your Ex Still Wants the Breakup: Sometimes, despite the lingering emotional connection, an ex might genuinely desire the breakup. Personal growth, self-discovery, or a fundamental shift in priorities may have occurred during the time apart. In this video, we explore the possibility that your ex has realized that moving forward individually is the best decision for both parties or at least feels that way at the moment. Understanding their motivations can help you find closure and embark on your own journey of self-improvement or to put yourself in a position to reunite with them.
2. They Think It Would Look Bad Too Soon: The fear of judgment and societal expectations can greatly influence an ex's hesitation to rekindle the relationship. They may genuinely care about you but fear the repercussions of appearing indecisive or emotionally unstable by getting back together too soon. Coach Leee goes into the significance of external perceptions and social pressures, guiding you to understand the complexity of their thought process.
3. The Ex-Partner's Persistent Contact: In some cases, an ex's continued contact can hinder the possibility of reuniting. This video explores the significance of maintaining boundaries during the post-breakup period. By analyzing the reasons behind their continuous communication, such as loneliness, regret, or unresolved emotions, you'll gain insights into why their actions might not align with their desire to rebuild the relationship. Coach Lee offers guidance on how to navigate this situation with empathy and self-care.
4. Ignored Outreach from the Ex: While your ex may have reached out to you with hopes of reconciliation, your lack of response can be disheartening for them. In this video, Coach sheds light on why ignoring them is not a good idea if you want to reunite with them. Perhaps they are still processing their emotions, seeking closure on their own terms, or struggling with their own personal challenges. By comprehending their perspective, you can develop resilience and embark on your own healing journey.
5. Involved in a Rebound Relationship: One of the most challenging hurdles to overcome is the realization that your ex is in a rebound relationship. This video tackles the complexities surrounding rebounds and their impact on rekindling past connections. Coach explores the psychology behind these relationships, highlighting the need for emotional healing and self-reflection before pursuing new connections. By understanding the potential pitfalls and insecurities that can arise from rebound relationships, you'll gain valuable insights into your ex's decision-making process. Throughout this video, Coach Lee emphasizes the importance of self-care and personal growth. Coach provides practical advice on how to focus on your own well-being, finding solace in activities that nurture your mental, emotional, and physical health. By focusing on your personal development, you can become the best version of yourself, whether or not your ex decides to re-enter your life. Remember, healing and growth take time.
This video encourages you to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, allowing you to forge a path towards personal happiness and fulfillment, regardless of the outcome with your ex-partner. Join Coach Lee as he explores the complexities of relationships and offers valuable insights to help you navigate the challenging journey ahead of you.
Watch the video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0Vsx8-iED4

Wednesday May 03, 2023
Why Is My Ex Watching My Stories and Checking My Social Media?
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Coach Lee explains why your ex is watching your social media, Instagram stories, Facebook, etc. If you are wondering what it means and if you should watch your ex's social media, Coach answers those questions.
If your question is, "Should I watch my ex's stories?" Lee answers that as well. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at http://LoveDynamics.com. Or get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Subscribe to Coach Lee! It is difficult to determine exactly why someone checks their ex's social media, as there could be a variety of reasons. However, it could potentially mean that they still have some level of interest or curiosity about you and what you are up to. Coach Lee discusses in this podcast! YouTube video at Why is my ex watching my stories and social media?
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Monday Apr 17, 2023
The Best Relationship Advice You’ve NEVER Heard
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Coach Lee shares the best relationship advice that you've never heard. In the five tips Coach Lee shares, you'll learn from his twenty-two years in relationship coaching. Most of the advice and tips on the list aren't talked about often if ever but can help relationships to be strong and to survive life's challenges. Apply the lessons from this video and your relationship will be a better one because of it. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at http://LoveDynamics.com.
Regardless of the type of relationship, they all have one thing in common: they require effort and dedication to thrive. However, sometimes we may find ourselves struggling to maintain or improve our relationships. In such cases, seeking relationship advice can be a wise decision that can help strengthen and enhance our relationships.
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Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Will Your Anxiety Ever Go Away?
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Will anxiety ever go away, end, or stop? Coach Lee answers this question and explains what you can do when anxiety comes on you. Lee explains what causes anxiety and what can be done to be able to feel better, function, and to prevent as many future instances as possible. To join Coach Lee's Support Community, go to https://LoveDynamics.com.
Anxiety can be a challenging and distressing experience.
Here are some strategies that may help you manage or reduce your anxiety:
Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Mindfulness can help you learn to accept and cope with anxious thoughts and feelings.
Exercise regularly: Exercise has been shown to be effective in reducing anxiety. Exercise releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce stress.
Practice deep breathing: Taking slow, deep breaths can help you relax and reduce anxiety. You can practice deep breathing exercises anywhere, anytime.
Challenge anxious thoughts: Anxiety is often fueled by negative thoughts. Try to challenge and replace negative thoughts with positive and realistic ones.
Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep can make anxiety worse. Try to get seven to eight hours of sleep each night.
Remember, managing anxiety is a process, and it may take time to find what works best for you. Be patient with yourself and take care of your mental health. https://MyAnxietyPeace.com SUBSCRIBE To This Channel on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@AnxietyPeace
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Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Is Your Ex Still In Love With You?
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Coach Lee answers the question, how to know if your ex is still in love with you. Just because someone broke up with you does not mean that they are no longer in love with you or that such love is permanently lost. In this video, you'll learn what to look for to help you know if your ex is still in love with you. Coach Lee mentioned two important resources in this video and they are the Emergency Breakup Kit which you can get at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk as well as the Support Community at https://LoveDynamics.com.
On YouTube at Is My Ex Still In Love With Me?
Accompanying article: Is My Ex Still In Love With Me? How To Know.
In navigating the aftermath of a relationship, it's vital to discern the nuances of your ex-partner's feelings towards you. Love, in its multifaceted existence, manifests in several distinct forms. This article aims to dissect these variations of love and provides insight into identifying if your ex still harbors romantic feelings for you.
The Diverse Facets of Love: A Comprehensive Understanding
Love isn't a monolithic emotion; it presents itself in various shades, each significant in its own right in the context of a broken relationship.
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Humanitarian Love: At its most fundamental, love is an altruistic concern for all beings and the environment. This form of love, devoid of personal gains, is likely present in your ex, except in cases marred by severe negativity or abuse.
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Companionship as Love: Friendship is a form of love characterized by mutual enjoyment of each other's company and sharing life's details. This platonic bond includes intimacy of a non-romantic nature. If your ex suggests friendship, it's indicative of their desire to retain this platonic connection.
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Familial Affection: The love we feel for family members, encompassing parents, siblings, and offspring, is ingrained in our sense of kinship and duty. Post-breakup, some relationships evolve into a comfortable, familial kind of love, akin to that shared with relatives.
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The Essence of Romantic Love: Central to most relationships, romantic love combines elements of passion, intimacy, and long-term commitment. It evolves from a focus on personal needs to a balanced interdependence where partners support and grow with each other. This love is critical for rekindling a romantic relationship.
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Limerence: Often confused with love, limerence is an intense, early-stage infatuation characterized by a high level of emotional and physical attraction. It's a temporary state that eventually gives way to more mature love.
Identifying Signs of Residual Romantic Love
To gauge if your ex still holds romantic feelings, observe these subtle cues:
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Inquisitiveness About Your Life: An interest in your daily activities suggests a lingering connection. They might indirectly satisfy this curiosity through social media or inquiries with friends, pointing to an unfading bond.
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Craving Physical Proximity: An ex's attempts to be near you, under trivial pretexts or direct encounters, indicates a desire for physical closeness. This longing for physical touch can rekindle old flames.
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Conversations About the Future: Talking about future endeavors or reminiscing shared experiences could signal a subconscious hope for reconciliation. Such forward-looking sentiments are indicative of remaining romantic love.
Steps Towards Re-engagement or Closure
Recognizing these signals is the first phase. Reacting appropriately is where the challenge lies. Here's how to navigate these revelations:
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Uphold Self-Respect: Approach the breakup with dignity. Desperate measures or behavior that might seem unstable can diminish your attractiveness.
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Measured Emotional Responses: While rekindling a relationship is exciting, it's essential to control your emotions. Overeagerness can push your ex away.
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Gradual Reconnection: Let the relationship evolve naturally without forcing it. Patience and understanding are key in allowing your ex to process their feelings.
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Savoring the Journey: Rebuilding a relationship is a process to be cherished. Focus on gradually re-establishing intimacy and trust.
To sum up, understanding if your ex still loves you requires an analysis of various types of love and their signs. Your response to these signs, balanced with respect for your own feelings, is critical. Whether this path leads to a revived relationship or a dignified conclusion, this understanding provides a roadmap for navigating post-breakup emotions with clarity and hope.
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Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Your Ex’s Brain During No Contact
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Coach Lee explains your ex's brain during no contact and even gets into the hormones produced at certain stages of no contact. Theses hormones are cortisol, adrenaline, oxytocin, and/or vasopressin. Men and women produce certain hormones at different levels during stress and anxiety. Coach Lee explains the stages that an ex goes through while you are using the No Contact Rule and also explains how their hormone production can be a significant part in them reaching out to you, wanting to get together, and ultimately wanting to reunite. If you want your ex back, knowing how no contact produces hormones that can help your efforts is important and that is what is explained in this powerful video. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/emk. His support community for people going through breakups is at http://lovedynamics.simplero.com. SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee!
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Friday Mar 17, 2023
What Your Ex NEEDS To Know To Come Back
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Coach Lee explains what your ex must know for sure about you in order to come back to you and the relationship. If you want to get back together with your ex, you need to make sure that they know certain things about you that you might not have even thought about yet. Coach Lee explains in this powerful video. Get more information on his Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/emk! SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee at https://youtube.com/@realcoachlee/videos
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Friday Mar 17, 2023
Help for No Contact Anxiety
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Friday Mar 17, 2023
This video provides help for those struggling with no contact anxiety and nervousness while using the No Contact Rule. If you are trying to get your ex back after a breakup, you have probably heard Coach Lee talk about the No Contact Rule. When you apply that, it can cause anxiety and emotional difficulty. This video will help you to address and overcome anxiety in that situation. Coach Lee provides several strategies to help you calm your anxiety and nervousness in this situation. Here is the link to Coach Lee's breathing circle that was mentioned in the video: https://myexbackcoach.com/breathing-circle-for-anxiety/ and get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk
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Thursday Mar 02, 2023
5 Ways Your Ex Will Test You After A Breakup
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
Learn ways and how an ex tests you after a breakup and what you should do about it if you want to get back together and reunite with your ex. If your ex is testing you after a breakup, it's important to be aware of what's going on and to respond in a way that feels healthy and appropriate for you. You don't have to engage with their tests if you don't want to, and it's okay to set boundaries and protect your own emotional well-being. It's not uncommon for an ex to test you after a breakup so be aware. Get the Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
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