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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Will Your Anxiety Ever Go Away?
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Will anxiety ever go away, end, or stop? Coach Lee answers this question and explains what you can do when anxiety comes on you. Lee explains what causes anxiety and what can be done to be able to feel better, function, and to prevent as many future instances as possible. To join Coach Lee's Support Community, go to https://LoveDynamics.com.
Anxiety can be a challenging and distressing experience.
Here are some strategies that may help you manage or reduce your anxiety:
Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Mindfulness can help you learn to accept and cope with anxious thoughts and feelings.
Exercise regularly: Exercise has been shown to be effective in reducing anxiety. Exercise releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce stress.
Practice deep breathing: Taking slow, deep breaths can help you relax and reduce anxiety. You can practice deep breathing exercises anywhere, anytime.
Challenge anxious thoughts: Anxiety is often fueled by negative thoughts. Try to challenge and replace negative thoughts with positive and realistic ones.
Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep can make anxiety worse. Try to get seven to eight hours of sleep each night.
Remember, managing anxiety is a process, and it may take time to find what works best for you. Be patient with yourself and take care of your mental health. https://MyAnxietyPeace.com SUBSCRIBE To This Channel on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@AnxietyPeace
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Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Is Your Ex Still In Love With You?
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Coach Lee answers the question, how to know if your ex is still in love with you. Just because someone broke up with you does not mean that they are no longer in love with you or that such love is permanently lost. In this video, you'll learn what to look for to help you know if your ex is still in love with you. Coach Lee mentioned two important resources in this video and they are the Emergency Breakup Kit which you can get at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk as well as the Support Community at https://LoveDynamics.com.
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In navigating the aftermath of a relationship, it's vital to discern the nuances of your ex-partner's feelings towards you. Love, in its multifaceted existence, manifests in several distinct forms. This article aims to dissect these variations of love and provides insight into identifying if your ex still harbors romantic feelings for you.
The Diverse Facets of Love: A Comprehensive Understanding
Love isn't a monolithic emotion; it presents itself in various shades, each significant in its own right in the context of a broken relationship.
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Humanitarian Love: At its most fundamental, love is an altruistic concern for all beings and the environment. This form of love, devoid of personal gains, is likely present in your ex, except in cases marred by severe negativity or abuse.
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Companionship as Love: Friendship is a form of love characterized by mutual enjoyment of each other's company and sharing life's details. This platonic bond includes intimacy of a non-romantic nature. If your ex suggests friendship, it's indicative of their desire to retain this platonic connection.
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Familial Affection: The love we feel for family members, encompassing parents, siblings, and offspring, is ingrained in our sense of kinship and duty. Post-breakup, some relationships evolve into a comfortable, familial kind of love, akin to that shared with relatives.
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The Essence of Romantic Love: Central to most relationships, romantic love combines elements of passion, intimacy, and long-term commitment. It evolves from a focus on personal needs to a balanced interdependence where partners support and grow with each other. This love is critical for rekindling a romantic relationship.
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Limerence: Often confused with love, limerence is an intense, early-stage infatuation characterized by a high level of emotional and physical attraction. It's a temporary state that eventually gives way to more mature love.
Identifying Signs of Residual Romantic Love
To gauge if your ex still holds romantic feelings, observe these subtle cues:
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Inquisitiveness About Your Life: An interest in your daily activities suggests a lingering connection. They might indirectly satisfy this curiosity through social media or inquiries with friends, pointing to an unfading bond.
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Craving Physical Proximity: An ex's attempts to be near you, under trivial pretexts or direct encounters, indicates a desire for physical closeness. This longing for physical touch can rekindle old flames.
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Conversations About the Future: Talking about future endeavors or reminiscing shared experiences could signal a subconscious hope for reconciliation. Such forward-looking sentiments are indicative of remaining romantic love.
Steps Towards Re-engagement or Closure
Recognizing these signals is the first phase. Reacting appropriately is where the challenge lies. Here's how to navigate these revelations:
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Uphold Self-Respect: Approach the breakup with dignity. Desperate measures or behavior that might seem unstable can diminish your attractiveness.
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Measured Emotional Responses: While rekindling a relationship is exciting, it's essential to control your emotions. Overeagerness can push your ex away.
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Gradual Reconnection: Let the relationship evolve naturally without forcing it. Patience and understanding are key in allowing your ex to process their feelings.
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Savoring the Journey: Rebuilding a relationship is a process to be cherished. Focus on gradually re-establishing intimacy and trust.
To sum up, understanding if your ex still loves you requires an analysis of various types of love and their signs. Your response to these signs, balanced with respect for your own feelings, is critical. Whether this path leads to a revived relationship or a dignified conclusion, this understanding provides a roadmap for navigating post-breakup emotions with clarity and hope.
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Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Your Ex’s Brain During No Contact
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Coach Lee explains your ex's brain during no contact and even gets into the hormones produced at certain stages of no contact. Theses hormones are cortisol, adrenaline, oxytocin, and/or vasopressin. Men and women produce certain hormones at different levels during stress and anxiety. Coach Lee explains the stages that an ex goes through while you are using the No Contact Rule and also explains how their hormone production can be a significant part in them reaching out to you, wanting to get together, and ultimately wanting to reunite. If you want your ex back, knowing how no contact produces hormones that can help your efforts is important and that is what is explained in this powerful video. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/emk. His support community for people going through breakups is at http://lovedynamics.simplero.com. SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee!
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Friday Mar 17, 2023
What Your Ex NEEDS To Know To Come Back
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Coach Lee explains what your ex must know for sure about you in order to come back to you and the relationship. If you want to get back together with your ex, you need to make sure that they know certain things about you that you might not have even thought about yet. Coach Lee explains in this powerful video. Get more information on his Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/emk! SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee at https://youtube.com/@realcoachlee/videos
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Friday Mar 17, 2023
Help for No Contact Anxiety
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Friday Mar 17, 2023
This video provides help for those struggling with no contact anxiety and nervousness while using the No Contact Rule. If you are trying to get your ex back after a breakup, you have probably heard Coach Lee talk about the No Contact Rule. When you apply that, it can cause anxiety and emotional difficulty. This video will help you to address and overcome anxiety in that situation. Coach Lee provides several strategies to help you calm your anxiety and nervousness in this situation. Here is the link to Coach Lee's breathing circle that was mentioned in the video: https://myexbackcoach.com/breathing-circle-for-anxiety/ and get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk
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Thursday Mar 02, 2023
5 Ways Your Ex Will Test You After A Breakup
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
Learn ways and how an ex tests you after a breakup and what you should do about it if you want to get back together and reunite with your ex. If your ex is testing you after a breakup, it's important to be aware of what's going on and to respond in a way that feels healthy and appropriate for you. You don't have to engage with their tests if you don't want to, and it's okay to set boundaries and protect your own emotional well-being. It's not uncommon for an ex to test you after a breakup so be aware. Get the Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
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Friday Feb 17, 2023
If You Think Your Ex Is NEVER Coming Back, Listen To This!
Friday Feb 17, 2023
Friday Feb 17, 2023
Coach Lee speaks to those who feel that their ex is never coming back after breaking up with them. If you are struggling after being broken up with and fear that your ex is gone for good, this message is for you! Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk.
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Friday Feb 03, 2023
How To Show Your Ex You’ve Changed
Friday Feb 03, 2023
Friday Feb 03, 2023
Coach Lee explains how you can show your ex that you have changed if you are using the no contact rule. It can seem difficult to show your ex anything if you are not in contact with them, but there are important things to consider and ways that you can show them that you have changed even if you aren't in contact with them. Timing, however, is key in revealing these changes and there is definitely a right way and a wrong way to show them.
Coach Lee shows you how to show them in a way that brings about the most attraction from them to you. It's important to know that right after the breakup, your ex doesn't care if you change or want to change because they just want to get away from you.
That's why it's important to be in no contact and if you are doing that, you are still doing the right thing even if you have changes that you need to make for yourself and for hope of reuniting the relationship. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
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In the complex realm of post-breakup dynamics, one of the most challenging aspects is demonstrating to your ex that you've evolved, especially when adhering to the no contact rule. This article aims to provide insight and practical strategies for showcasing your personal growth to your ex, without direct communication.
Understanding the Post-Breakup Mindset
Initially, it's important to recognize that immediately following a breakup, your ex's interest in whether you've changed is typically minimal. This indifference stems from a belief that the relationship is beyond repair and that any immediate change on your part may not be genuine or lasting. Therefore, the focus should be less on instant transformation and more on a gradual process of self-improvement.
The Role of Attraction in Rekindling Interest
A significant drop in attraction often underpins the decision to end a relationship. Even if you could instantaneously rectify your behaviors or traits that contributed to this decline, rebuilding attraction is a process that takes time. It's crucial to understand that attraction is not solely based on addressing issues or changing habits; it's about reigniting the emotional and physical connection that initially brought you together.
Strategic Patience: The Power of No Contact
Patience plays a pivotal role in this journey. The no contact rule is not about inaction; it's a strategic move to give your ex space to experience life without you. This absence can often lead to them missing you and reconsidering the breakup. It's during this phase of reflection and longing that any changes you've made start to hold more significance.
Visible and Invisible Changes
Some changes are immediately noticeable, like physical transformations or lifestyle improvements. These are advantageous as they are visible even from a distance. However, emotional and behavioral changes, which are not immediately observable, are equally important. These include becoming less argumentative, more affectionate, or more emotionally available.
Demonstrating Change Without Direct Communication
The challenge lies in demonstrating these invisible changes without direct contact. This can be achieved through mutual friends or social media, but subtlety is key. Avoid overt attempts to showcase your transformation; instead, let your actions speak for themselves. When your ex hears about your positive changes through indirect means, it creates a powerful impact.
The Importance of Organic Interactions
When the opportunity for interaction naturally arises, it's crucial to exhibit your changes organically. Whether it's through a casual encounter or a planned meeting, show your growth through your demeanor, conversation, and actions. Avoid over-emphasizing your changes; let them be noticed naturally.
Rebuilding Attraction Gradually
Rekindling attraction is a gradual process. It's not about overwhelming your ex with evidence of change but about letting them rediscover you and the reasons they were attracted to you in the first place. Each interaction should be a step towards rebuilding your relationship, not a sprint to the finish line.
Conclusion: The Art of Subtle Transformation
In conclusion, demonstrating change to your ex during no contact is an art that requires patience, subtlety, and strategic planning. It's about making genuine improvements in yourself and allowing these changes to be subtly observed and appreciated over time. By understanding the nuances of post-breakup dynamics and focusing on personal growth, you increase the chances of rekindling your relationship with a renewed and deeper connection.
Tuesday Jan 24, 2023
What Your Ex Needs To Come Back
Tuesday Jan 24, 2023
Tuesday Jan 24, 2023
Coach Lee explains what your ex needs in order to come back to you and the relationship. Often times people don't understand the dynamics of a breakup that cause someone to continue to want to be broken up. It's important to understand how your ex sees you and how they feel in order to have the best chance to reunite with them. There are some cases where moving on is best, but there are also many times when a broken relationship can be restored. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/ and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-marriage-kit/
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Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
What Caused Your Ex’s Feelings To Fade? And What Should You Do About It?
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Learn what caused your ex's feelings to fade to the point that he or she wanted to break up with you.
Many people don't understand that feelings fading had a cause and that, if the cause (or causes) are understood, reunion is possible and the fading phenomenon can be prevented in the future with your ex or with someone else.
Asking "Why my ex's feelings faded," is a perfectly reasonable question and I will answer it in this podcast as well as in video form.
What does it mean when an ex says that their feelings faded? Why did your ex's feelings fade? That is what Coach Lee discusses in this video.
Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/ and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-marriage-kit/
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