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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Thursday Sep 28, 2023
How Long Before Your Ex Misses You?
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Video mentioned: "Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact."
How long before your ex misses you after a breakup if you are using the no contact rule? Coach Lee answers this question and more in this helpful video for those growing impatient with the no-contact process.
In his latest video, Coach Lee delves deep into the complexities of the "no contact rule" and its impact on the process of making your ex miss you. With a wealth of experience in relationship coaching, Coach Lee provides valuable insights on the multifaceted nature of human emotions and the crucial factors that influence how long it might take for your ex to start missing you.
The burning question on everyone's mind is, "How long until my ex misses me if I'm using the no contact rule?" Coach Lee doesn't offer a one-size-fits-all answer, as he understands that every relationship is unique and that emotions are not easily predictable. Instead, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the nuances involved.
Coach Lee highlights that the effectiveness of the no contact rule hinges on several key variables. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Get information on Coach Lee's "Relationship Reignite" workshop for relationships in crisis at http://MyExBackCoach.com/relationship-reignite
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Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
How To Win Your Spouse Back
Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Welcome to today's episode, entitled "How to Win Your Spouse Back."
This is a special installment that focuses on reigniting the love and commitment that may have waned in your marriage - especially if one spouse wants to leave.
With actionable advice, expert insights, and real-life stories, Coach Lee can help you navigate the complicated journey of winning back your spouse's heart.
If you're dealing with misunderstandings, anger, a cheating spouse, or simply miss the spark that once lit up your relationship, this episode is for you.
Tune in as we explore the nuanced steps involved in rebuilding trust, fostering communication, and ultimately, giving love a second chance. This episode is on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnfK1ip0_ro
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Saturday Sep 02, 2023
Signs My Ex Wants Me Back
Saturday Sep 02, 2023
Saturday Sep 02, 2023
Navigating the complex world of post-breakup dynamics can leave anyone feeling like they're walking on eggshells. One minute you're trying to move on, and the next, you're noticing peculiar behavior from your ex that makes you wonder if there's more to the story.
In this intriguing video, "Signs My Ex Wants Me Back," we're delving into five telltale signs that might indicate your ex has a change of heart. From subtle online interactions to real-life encounters, we'll explore these signs in-depth, helping you decode the mixed signals and uncover the truth. Watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RWKrri1-FM
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Friday Sep 01, 2023
Will Separation Save My Marriage?
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Friday Sep 01, 2023
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In this enlightening podcast, acclaimed relationship expert Coach Lee delves into a pressing question that often plagues struggling couples: "Is Separation the Key to Saving My Marriage?"
With his extensive experience and profound insights, Coach Lee offers a thorough examination of the potential ramifications of taking a break from your spouse when your relationship is on shaky ground.
Relationships are intricate and multifaceted journeys, demanding continuous effort, empathy, and compromise from both partners. When a marriage encounters turbulence, the idea of separation can appear alluring—a chance to step back and gain perspective.
Nonetheless, Coach Lee urges viewers to reflect critically before embarking on such a path, as the consequences of separation may not align with their ultimate objective of rescuing the marriage.
Central to Coach Lee's argument is the concept that separation can inadvertently yield counterproductive outcomes. While some may believe that distance can rekindle passion and provide clarity, Coach Lee presents a compelling counterargument. He explains that separation can, in fact, lead to temporary relief for both partners. The absence of conflict and tension can create a deceptive perception that the problems are dissipating on their own. However, this sense of relief can have unintended repercussions.
Coach Lee underscores that this relief might erode the motivation required to actively address the issues afflicting the relationship. When couples are no longer immersed in the day-to-day challenges, they may lose the sense of urgency needed to confront the underlying problems. It is easy to underestimate the power of inertia—once the momentum for repairing the relationship is lost, the chances of rekindling the flame dwindle.
Throughout the video, Coach Lee illustrates his points with authentic examples and relatable scenarios, rendering his advice tangible and relatable. He underscores the importance of communication and shared responsibility in saving a marriage. Instead of opting for separation, he suggests that couples concentrate on fostering open and honest dialogue. This dialogue, Coach Lee emphasizes, should encompass not only the struggles and disagreements but also the aspirations and goals both partners have for the relationship.
Coach Lee proceeds to offer practical strategies for couples to navigate the challenging terrain of their relationship without resorting to separation. He emphasizes the necessity of establishing a robust emotional connection, the cornerstone of any thriving marriage. By acknowledging each other's feelings and actively listening, couples can cultivate empathy and comprehension.
Moreover, Coach Lee provides guidance on seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or therapy, to facilitate constructive conversations and provide a neutral space for addressing concerns. His emphasis on seeking external support underscores his belief in the potential for growth and transformation within a relationship.
The video culminates with Coach Lee reinforcing the notion that while separation may provide temporary respite, it is not a cure-all for the deeper issues within a marriage. Instead, it is a pivotal period for introspection, both individually and as a couple. Coach Lee advises couples to view their challenges as opportunities for growth and positive change, rather than insurmountable obstacles.
With his empathetic and pragmatic approach, Coach Lee provides viewers with an alternative perspective on the role of separation in saving a marriage. His insights challenge conventional wisdom and inspire couples to approach their relationships with renewed determination and commitment.
In a world where quick fixes are often sought, Coach Lee's video serves as a beacon of wisdom and guidance. By the video's conclusion, viewers will not only possess a more nuanced understanding of the potential consequences of separation but also a fresh appreciation for the power of communication, empathy, and dedication.
If you find yourself at a crossroads in your marriage, contemplating whether separation is the right course of action, this video offers invaluable insights that present a new outlook. Coach Lee's expertise, rooted in years of helping couples navigate the intricacies of relationships, shines through as he provides a roadmap for couples to rekindle their love and rebuild their connection. Don't miss this opportunity to gain insight into the complexities of relationships and learn how to navigate them with grace and determination.
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Friday Jul 14, 2023
Why Getting An Ex Back Is Difficult (And How To Make It Easier)
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Being broken up with by a loved one can be an emotionally challenging experience, leaving one yearning for a second chance at love with him or her. Rekindling a romantic relationship with an ex can indeed be a difficult task, as it requires careful consideration of past mistakes and a sincere effort to rebuild trust.
However, there is potential for reuniting with an ex through the effective use of the no contact rule. By understanding its principles and implementing them wisely, individuals can create the ideal conditions for reigniting a lost love.
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The Complexity of Rekindling Romance Reuniting with an ex-partner is often a complex endeavor. When a relationship ends, it is usually because the couple has encountered significant challenges or incompatibilities that could not be overcome at that particular time.
Both individuals may have experienced hurt, disappointment, and a loss of trust. These emotions make it difficult to rebuild a connection without addressing the underlying issues that caused the breakup in the first place. Additionally, when attempting to get back with an ex, it is crucial to consider their perspective and feelings. Approaching the situation without understanding their current emotional state and desires can lead to further heartache and disappointment.
The No Contact Rule: Creating Space for Healing The no contact rule, when used effectively, can serve as a valuable tool for both personal growth and rekindling a relationship. By establishing a period of no contact, individuals create space for healing, reflection, and self-improvement. This rule entails abstaining from any form of communication with the ex-partner, allowing both parties to gain clarity and perspective.
During this period, individuals can focus on their personal well-being, engage in activities they enjoy, and work on addressing any issues that contributed to the breakup. This self-improvement not only enhances individual happiness and fulfillment but also increases the chances of a successful reunion by demonstrating personal growth and positive change.
Rebuilding Trust and Connection: After the no contact period, the dumper may reestablish communication with their ex-partner. It is essential to approach this phase with patience, understanding, and respect for their boundaries. Open and honest conversations can help address the past issues that led to the breakup and identify potential solutions. Rebuilding trust is a fundamental aspect of reigniting a lost romance. This process requires consistency, transparency, and demonstrating a genuine commitment to personal growth. It may also involve seeking professional guidance through couples counseling to navigate difficult conversations and rebuild the foundation of the relationship.
Conclusion: Getting back with an ex can be a challenging journey, but it is not an impossible one. By implementing the no contact rule effectively and investing in personal growth, individuals can create the ideal conditions for a potential reunion. Rebuilding trust, addressing past issues, and demonstrating positive change are essential steps toward rekindling a lost love. However, it is crucial to recognize that not all relationships can or should be resurrected. Ultimately, the key lies in understanding oneself, the ex-partner, and the potential for growth and happiness, regardless of the outcome. SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee!
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Monday Jul 03, 2023
Should You Reach Out To Your Ex?
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I reach out to my ex?"
He does so with the assumption that you want your ex back after they broke up with you. Breakups can be emotionally painful, leaving us longing for the comfort and familiarity of the relationship. During moments of vulnerability, the temptation to reach out to your ex can be overwhelming.
In this podcast, Coach Lee, explores several compelling reasons why reaching out to your ex is generally not advisable and answers questions about situations that people have stated for wanting to reach out to their ex. Get more information on Coach Lee's Relationship Reignite online workshop at https://myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite/
After a breakup, reaching out to your former partner may momentarily provide a sense of comfort, but it can also reopen old wounds, intensifying pain and prolonging the healing process.
Healing requires time, introspection, and self-care. By focusing on yourself and engaging in activities that promote personal growth, you can create a solid foundation for future relationships - including with your ex if he or she comes back.
Although the urge to reach out to an ex can be overpowering, it is crucial to resist the temptation. By prioritizing emotional healing, personal growth, and self-discovery, you lay the groundwork for a brighter future. Allow yourself time and space to heal, learn from the past, and move forward. Embrace the opportunity to explore new connections and rediscover your independence. Remember, the best chance you have of getting back together with your ex is to respect their decision by giving them the breakup that they think they want. Only then can your ex see if he or she actually wants the breakup or not. SUBSCRIBE To Coach Lee!
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Sunday Jun 11, 2023
How To Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right.
This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup. Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship.
Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth. Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone.
Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex. While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings.
Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away. Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others. Subscribe to Coach Lee! On YouTube at "How To Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup."
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Thursday May 25, 2023
Does Your Ex Have ”Reunion Resistance?”
Thursday May 25, 2023
Thursday May 25, 2023
In this enlightening and insightful video, Coach Lee delves into the complex reasons why your ex might be reluctant to rekindle the flame of your past relationship. With careful consideration and empathy, he explores five common factors that could be influencing their decision. By gaining a deeper understanding of their perspective, you'll be better equipped to navigate the path towards healing and personal growth.
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1. Your Ex Still Wants the Breakup: Sometimes, despite the lingering emotional connection, an ex might genuinely desire the breakup. Personal growth, self-discovery, or a fundamental shift in priorities may have occurred during the time apart. In this video, we explore the possibility that your ex has realized that moving forward individually is the best decision for both parties or at least feels that way at the moment. Understanding their motivations can help you find closure and embark on your own journey of self-improvement or to put yourself in a position to reunite with them.
2. They Think It Would Look Bad Too Soon: The fear of judgment and societal expectations can greatly influence an ex's hesitation to rekindle the relationship. They may genuinely care about you but fear the repercussions of appearing indecisive or emotionally unstable by getting back together too soon. Coach Leee goes into the significance of external perceptions and social pressures, guiding you to understand the complexity of their thought process.
3. The Ex-Partner's Persistent Contact: In some cases, an ex's continued contact can hinder the possibility of reuniting. This video explores the significance of maintaining boundaries during the post-breakup period. By analyzing the reasons behind their continuous communication, such as loneliness, regret, or unresolved emotions, you'll gain insights into why their actions might not align with their desire to rebuild the relationship. Coach Lee offers guidance on how to navigate this situation with empathy and self-care.
4. Ignored Outreach from the Ex: While your ex may have reached out to you with hopes of reconciliation, your lack of response can be disheartening for them. In this video, Coach sheds light on why ignoring them is not a good idea if you want to reunite with them. Perhaps they are still processing their emotions, seeking closure on their own terms, or struggling with their own personal challenges. By comprehending their perspective, you can develop resilience and embark on your own healing journey.
5. Involved in a Rebound Relationship: One of the most challenging hurdles to overcome is the realization that your ex is in a rebound relationship. This video tackles the complexities surrounding rebounds and their impact on rekindling past connections. Coach explores the psychology behind these relationships, highlighting the need for emotional healing and self-reflection before pursuing new connections. By understanding the potential pitfalls and insecurities that can arise from rebound relationships, you'll gain valuable insights into your ex's decision-making process. Throughout this video, Coach Lee emphasizes the importance of self-care and personal growth. Coach provides practical advice on how to focus on your own well-being, finding solace in activities that nurture your mental, emotional, and physical health. By focusing on your personal development, you can become the best version of yourself, whether or not your ex decides to re-enter your life. Remember, healing and growth take time.
This video encourages you to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, allowing you to forge a path towards personal happiness and fulfillment, regardless of the outcome with your ex-partner. Join Coach Lee as he explores the complexities of relationships and offers valuable insights to help you navigate the challenging journey ahead of you.
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Wednesday May 03, 2023
Why Is My Ex Watching My Stories and Checking My Social Media?
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Coach Lee explains why your ex is watching your social media, Instagram stories, Facebook, etc. If you are wondering what it means and if you should watch your ex's social media, Coach answers those questions.
If your question is, "Should I watch my ex's stories?" Lee answers that as well. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at http://LoveDynamics.com. Or get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Subscribe to Coach Lee! It is difficult to determine exactly why someone checks their ex's social media, as there could be a variety of reasons. However, it could potentially mean that they still have some level of interest or curiosity about you and what you are up to. Coach Lee discusses in this podcast! YouTube video at Why is my ex watching my stories and social media?
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Monday Apr 17, 2023
The Best Relationship Advice You’ve NEVER Heard
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Coach Lee shares the best relationship advice that you've never heard. In the five tips Coach Lee shares, you'll learn from his twenty-two years in relationship coaching. Most of the advice and tips on the list aren't talked about often if ever but can help relationships to be strong and to survive life's challenges. Apply the lessons from this video and your relationship will be a better one because of it. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at http://LoveDynamics.com.
Regardless of the type of relationship, they all have one thing in common: they require effort and dedication to thrive. However, sometimes we may find ourselves struggling to maintain or improve our relationships. In such cases, seeking relationship advice can be a wise decision that can help strengthen and enhance our relationships.
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