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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Friday Oct 15, 2021
The Mind of Your Ex When You Pursue
Friday Oct 15, 2021
Friday Oct 15, 2021
Coach Lee explains what happens in your ex's mind when you pursue them after they broke up with you. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
Read the accompanying article at: Your Ex's Mind When You Pursue Them
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Understanding Emotional Space
When an individual continuously seeks out an ex-partner post-separation, it inadvertently creates a sensation of constraint and a longing for liberation in the ex-partner. This unyielding presence often leads the ex-partner to idealize a future devoid of such encumbrances, further distancing them from any thoughts of reunion. Stepping back allows them to experience and perhaps miss the unique aspects of the relationship, potentially leading to a reconsideration of the breakup.
Importance of Absence in Realization
Relentless pursuit post-breakup can hinder an ex's journey towards understanding the real implications of their decision. Without the opportunity to miss and reflect upon the relationship's value, they remain in a state of ignorance about what life truly feels like without their former partner. Allowing them this space can lead to a heightened appreciation of past connections and possibly a desire to rekindle the relationship.
Perceived Value and Scarcity
Constant availability significantly diminishes one's perceived value in the eyes of an ex. By always being there, the individual essentially lowers their worth and desirability. Conversely, absence can increase perceived value, making the person seem like a rarer and thus more desirable presence in their ex's life.
Simplifying the Path to Reconciliation
When one pursues an ex relentlessly, it inadvertently creates additional emotional and psychological barriers to potential reconciliation. Each attempt at contact is a reminder of the past and adds to the apprehension of re-entering the relationship. By removing these barriers through absence, one simplifies the journey back to potentially mending the relationship, making it a more attractive proposition based on positive feelings rather than guilt or pressure.
Promoting Mutual Growth and Respect
By taking a step back, individuals avoid falling into the trap of being seen as responsible for fixing all aspects of the relationship, including those broken by the ex. This dynamic is detrimental and prevents both parties from learning and growing from the experience. Allowing ex-partners to fully confront the consequences of their actions fosters a deeper understanding and appreciation of the relationship, potentially leading to a more mature and sincere attempt at reconciliation if they truly regret their decision.
These reflections emphasize the significance of emotional space and personal growth post-breakup, advocating for a more detached approach to potentially mend a lost connection. The key lies in understanding these emotional dynamics and adapting one's actions to foster a healthy and respectful path to reconciliation or personal growth.
Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
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