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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee
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Friday Jul 16, 2021
How To Make Someone Want You Again
Friday Jul 16, 2021
Friday Jul 16, 2021
Though we can't truly "make" someone want us again, Coach Lee explains how you can re-attract someone to the point that they want you again and want to reunite with you. This is extremely helpful after a breakup if you want to get back together with your ex.
Watch the video of this podcast at How to make someone want you again
Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
The Art of Reigniting Desire: How to Make Someone Want You Again
Introduction
Rekindling someone's interest and desire after a drift or breakup can be challenging. Often, the instinct is to pursue them more aggressively. However, turning the tables by stepping back, stopping the pursuit, and even implementing the no-contact rule, combined with a casual demeanor when they reach out, can be more effective. This article explores how you can make someone want you again by giving them space and subtly re-engaging their interest.
Understanding the Psychology of Desire
Desire often grows in space and mystery rather than in the predictable pattern of continued pursuit. When you stop chasing someone, you disrupt the expected dynamic. This shift can lead to curiosity and a re-evaluation of their feelings. The no-contact rule isn't just about making them miss you; it's about giving them the room to question the absence of what was once familiar and possibly taken for granted.
Implementing the No-Contact Rule
The no-contact rule is essentially a period where you cease all communication with the person of interest. This means no calls, texts, or social media interactions. The purpose is twofold: it allows you to regain composure and focus on your own growth, and it also leaves a void in their life where you used to be. This absence can often lead to them missing you and reconsidering their feelings. It's crucial, however, that this step is executed with sincerity and not as a manipulative ploy. Genuine self-improvement and reflection are key during this period.
Self-Improvement and Personal Growth
During the no-contact period, invest in yourself. Engage in activities that improve your well-being and happiness. This might mean picking up new hobbies, focusing on career goals, or simply spending time with loved ones. As you become more fulfilled and confident in your own life, your intrinsic attractiveness increases. People are naturally drawn to individuals who are content and passionate about their lives. This shift in your demeanor will be noticeable and appealing when you eventually reconnect.
Re-engaging with a Casual Demeanor
Once the no-contact period ends, and they reach out or you decide to re-initiate contact, maintain a casual and composed demeanor. The desperation or intense eagerness that might have characterized your interactions before needs to be replaced with a relaxed, confident attitude. Show that while you value them and enjoy their company, your happiness doesn't solely depend on their attention or approval. This balance of warmth and independence can be incredibly attractive.
Demonstrating Change and New Dynamics
When you do start interacting again, subtly demonstrate the positive changes in your life. Talk about new experiences or insights gained during the no-contact period without bragging or seeming like you're trying to make them jealous. The goal is to show that you've evolved, that your life is rich and interesting, and that being part of it is a choice, not a necessity. This can reignite their interest and make them want to be a part of your world again.
Handling Re-engagement with Maturity
As they start to show interest again, continue to keep a balanced approach. Don't revert to old patterns of immediate and overwhelming responses. Instead, continue to prioritize your life and respond to them with a steady, engaging manner. This shows that while you're interested, you're not waiting on them, creating a dynamic where they may start pursuing you more actively.
Conclusion
Making someone want you again is not about games or manipulation. It's about understanding human psychology and creating an environment where desire can naturally rekindle. By stepping back with the no-contact rule, focusing on personal growth, and re-engaging with a casual and confident demeanor, you turn the tables and create a situation where they start to see you in a new light. This approach isn't just about reigniting their desire; it's about creating a healthier, more balanced dynamic where both parties can interact with mutual respect and attraction.
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